I have a serious problem?

When my second husband and I got married, he was 20 and I was 24. I had two children from my first marriage. He had never been married before and had no children. I could not get enough of him!, but every year, I became a "Nascar and Football Widow" if you know what I mean... He also worked 2nd shift, I worked from 8:AM to 2:PM and he worked from 3:30PM to midnight. I had to get up early every morning with the children and get them off to the sitter, then get off work, come home take care of the kids by myself and get them to bed each night. On the weekends my husband was so tired he wanted to sleep a lot. When he would get home at 12:30 at night, I was usually asleep, he would stay up till 4:am to watch tv and wind down from his day. I knew if I wanted to be with him I would have to make some changes... So a couple nights a week, I would wait up for him to get home from work. The kids would already be in bed, I'd meet him at the door in something skimpy and off to bed we'd go, after he washed up of course. Because he saw the changes I was willing to make to be with him, he made some also. On the weekends he started getting up early with me, and helping with the kids, so in the evening, after we put them to bed, he was ready to go to bed with me instead of staying up and watching TV. Stop nagging... be seductive, be patient, football season only lasts till the first part of February... you'll get your husband back, but in the meantime, which is more important?, missing some sleep, or spending some time in the arms of the man you love??